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First-Time Runway Model: Age 63

April 20, 2012
The model in question is not me. It's my office partner and friend, Carrie Knowles, who will take a turn on the runway tonight in the third annual Redress Raleigh fashion show.   I call this bold — and a lot of fun.  What she and the other models will be wearing is clothes by local Raleigh designers that are […] Read More

Writer Stamina

April 9, 2012
Novelist Herman Wouk — age 96! — has a new novel coming out in the fall.  And it's not the least bit posthumous. In the picture in The Washington Post, he looks like a fully operational 78.  His new book, The Lawgiver, is  a story of characters who are making a movie about Moses.  It is totally au courant: […] Read More

Seductive Sugar

April 2, 2012
I haven't had a Coke since mid-morning yesterday — and I poured the last two-thirds of that one out in the bathroom sink. Nor have I had a tall 20 ounces of McDonald's sweet tea. Or settled down with a half-gallon of frozen yogurt.  Having a little change of diet here, dropping some of my […] Read More

Don’t Feel Like It? A Paradoxical Mood Improver

March 22, 2012
Tonight I came home tired and sleepy, with work that still needed to be done.  Didn't even have the energy it takes to enjoyably procrastinate.  No weeding, reading, or frittering.  Then I remembered a tidbit of wisdom I'd been saving to post here: about a strategy for shaking an undesirable mood by behaving in opposition to the […] Read More

Which Book Cover for Novel Re-Release?

February 24, 2012
Please help me choose.  My novel Revelation, which came out in hardback in 1988, is re-emerging in a few weeks in digital form. Which of these would you use?  A, B, or C.  The Revelation cover needs to give a very slight hint that something unsettling and off-kilter goes on in the story.  Troubled minister, stirred-up […] Read More

OCD update

February 21, 2012
My wrestle last week with my bit of obsessive compulsive disorder (see previous post) came to a happy ending.  I got a new prescription.  It's working great and I feel wonderful. Also, I started planting big shrubs to screen out the forest devastation I was upset about.  (Again, the previous post will allow this to […] Read More

A Rough Day with the OCD

February 16, 2012
A friend suggested I might hold off on blogging today.  And she has a point.  What one says online tends to be permanent and I can already imagine writing an apology tomorrow for whatever I say today. But I regularly claim here to write about coping with obsessive-compulsive disorder, and it seems like dodging the subject and potential usefulness to […] Read More

Tell Me Which Opening You Like Best for My Novel

February 10, 2012
I'm on the verge of getting my first novel Revelation (Simon & Schuster, 1988) out in digital form.  And I've been having second thoughts about which set of paragraphs should open the story: the one that I first turned in to my editor, or the material that I added which served as the opening of […] Read More

All I Need to Know about Perseverance I’ve Learned from Duke Basketball

February 9, 2012
 [youtube rPbo3TA8ogc] [youtube /rPbo3TA8ogc] Last night was the second time that a Duke basketball team reminded me to never give up a millisecond before the buzzer. I'm not even a huge sports fan — hadn't watched a basketball game all season.  But last night the legendary rivalry broke out once again: Duke vs. Carolina.  And […] Read More

Ski Report

February 2, 2012
The bottom line:  I boldly stayed on the green ("Easier") ski run and enjoyed a day of skiing without having to be rescued even once. The backstory:  last week I mentioned here that I would be going skiing again for a day for the first time in more than 15 years.  My career as a […] Read More


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