On an impulse this week, I sent out an email to about a dozen or so friends whom I thought might have sufficiently flexible schedules and adventurous spirits, asking them to go skiing with me Monday afternoon.  The trip from here to Beech Mountain:  an early morning four hour drive, then four hours or so […] Read More

Gregg Levoy, author of the terrifically useful book, Callings: Finding and Following an Authentic Life, is looking for people to interview for his latest project. He would like to hear from those who have "compelling and dramatic stories about coming back to life. Reclaiming your passion and lifeforce, your sense of aliveness, after losing it in […] Read More

 Give your writing a fresh burst of energy this January. Or tell your students and writer friends…  I'm throwing a workshop in which writers spend a day devising a realistic productive strategy for their best writing year. Devote a Saturday — January 21, 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. — to getting a good start. Begin […] Read More

My ambitious resolution for this New Year:  I'm dropping the habit of self-berating and switching to what's known in the psych biz as "positive self-talk."  I've long felt that berating one's self is the only true waste of time.   And I waste a lot of time that way. I've made efforts before to drop this pernicious […] Read More

 Cellist Yo Yo Ma says he isn't a brave man, that he is scared much of the time.  "But," he adds, "I must like being scared," since he keeps on doing things he fears. Ma is one of the 5 winners of the Kennedy Center Honors for 2011, the 34th annual presentation of this award for lifetime […] Read More

It's  the season of air-borne sleighs and wingless flying deer and other miracles.  Might be a good time to ease off the more mundane magic of the Internet.  Just for a bit? A day? (my computer has started behaving badly as I write this)  I ran across this tropical image of the prayerful take-a-break spirit at Lost […] Read More

I had a mini-crisis — of courage/honesty/boldness, etc. —  this week over how to rank books by friends and clients on Goodreads.com.   The way it works:  on this site, people give stars to books they've read , ratings which can work as recommendations or warnings for other readers of similar tastes.  One star means "didn't […] Read More

One notably bold move in my recent Costa Rican adventure:     My guide on a wildlife-watching river float pulled over to shore, leaped onto the bank, thrashed around in the more than knee-deep lush green tangle, and came back to the raft holding a poison dart frog.  These brilliant little creatures are actually poison to touch.  It's not just a […] Read More

What are the holidays like when you're celebrating with someone who is severely disabled?   How do you shop for someone who can use very little? My friend, Lena Rivkin, a visual artist and graphologist in LA, knows a lot about this situation.  "When you have a sibling who cannot speak, make direct eye contact or […] Read More

Fresh out of the Costa Rican rainforest, I have a new take on the idea that life is a jungle. I'm now seeing it as a positive. Jungles (a word I use pretty much interchangeably with rainforest) are full of extravagant, gorgeous life. Plants in the tropical rainforest grow enormous in the effort to catch […] Read More