A friend suggested I might hold off on blogging today.  And she has a point.  What one says online tends to be permanent and I can already imagine writing an apology tomorrow for whatever I say today. But I regularly claim here to write about coping with obsessive-compulsive disorder, and it seems like dodging the subject and potential usefulness to […] Read More

I'm on the verge of getting my first novel Revelation (Simon & Schuster, 1988) out in digital form.  And I've been having second thoughts about which set of paragraphs should open the story: the one that I first turned in to my editor, or the material that I added which served as the opening of […] Read More

 [youtube rPbo3TA8ogc] [youtube /rPbo3TA8ogc] Last night was the second time that a Duke basketball team reminded me to never give up a millisecond before the buzzer. I'm not even a huge sports fan — hadn't watched a basketball game all season.  But last night the legendary rivalry broke out once again: Duke vs. Carolina.  And […] Read More

The bottom line:  I boldly stayed on the green ("Easier") ski run and enjoyed a day of skiing without having to be rescued even once. The backstory:  last week I mentioned here that I would be going skiing again for a day for the first time in more than 15 years.  My career as a […] Read More

On an impulse this week, I sent out an email to about a dozen or so friends whom I thought might have sufficiently flexible schedules and adventurous spirits, asking them to go skiing with me Monday afternoon.  The trip from here to Beech Mountain:  an early morning four hour drive, then four hours or so […] Read More

Gregg Levoy, author of the terrifically useful book, Callings: Finding and Following an Authentic Life, is looking for people to interview for his latest project. He would like to hear from those who have "compelling and dramatic stories about coming back to life. Reclaiming your passion and lifeforce, your sense of aliveness, after losing it in […] Read More

 Give your writing a fresh burst of energy this January. Or tell your students and writer friends…  I'm throwing a workshop in which writers spend a day devising a realistic productive strategy for their best writing year. Devote a Saturday — January 21, 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. — to getting a good start. Begin […] Read More

My ambitious resolution for this New Year:  I'm dropping the habit of self-berating and switching to what's known in the psych biz as "positive self-talk."  I've long felt that berating one's self is the only true waste of time.   And I waste a lot of time that way. I've made efforts before to drop this pernicious […] Read More

 Cellist Yo Yo Ma says he isn't a brave man, that he is scared much of the time.  "But," he adds, "I must like being scared," since he keeps on doing things he fears. Ma is one of the 5 winners of the Kennedy Center Honors for 2011, the 34th annual presentation of this award for lifetime […] Read More

It's  the season of air-borne sleighs and wingless flying deer and other miracles.  Might be a good time to ease off the more mundane magic of the Internet.  Just for a bit? A day? (my computer has started behaving badly as I write this)  I ran across this tropical image of the prayerful take-a-break spirit at Lost […] Read More