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Bold Ben Bradlee

November 30, 2010
I'm envious of this guy Ben Bradlee, former editor of The Washington Post. Not because of his journalism career, stellar as that is. (He was in charge of Woodward and Bernstein and the Watergate story.) But because he decidedly doesn't have the slightest smidgeon of obsessive-compulsive disorder, of any kind of anxiety disorder. I know […] Read More

Turning Over a New Leaf

November 29, 2010
  Walking back from the Post Office just now, I noticed freshly-fallen yellow gingko leaves on the ground. There's no other leaf like a gingko.  When I was growing up in Wilmington, I knew where the only such trees in town were.  These fan-shaped items redefine "leaf." So I collected a few just now and […] Read More

Making Bold Changes

November 23, 2010
One: I’ve revamped my website. Two and immensely larger: my husband and I combined our finances. After only 27 years of marriage. For a person of the freelance mentality, this is a large move. Bottom line: I’ve proved to myself all I feel the need to prove. No more keeping score on myself. I’m ready […] Read More

Live It Up!

November 20, 2010
Don't live down to expectations. Go out there and do something remarkable. — Wendy Wasserstein quoted at She Writes (I also think one can stay in and do something remarkable.) Read More

Vivid Reminders to Live Boldly

November 18, 2010
These trees are across the street from my office. Fall color can be an irresistible reminder to dare to live with one's innate flair.   Read More

After Four Years of Procrastination ….

November 15, 2010
Last week I committed myself here on this very blog to finish by last night a project that has been sitting on my desk at home for four years. This job was to go through the thousands of slides and negatives and B&W prints from the years when I was doing a great deal of […] Read More

The Funny Thing about Procrastination

November 9, 2010
Thursday morning, I started working on a little project that has been sitting unfinished on my desk at home for FOUR YEARS!!!! The wee task is culling and properly storing the photos I took in the many years when I was doing a lot of travel writing. They have been sitting in little yellow boxes […] Read More

Bold Bonus Life: House-sitting

November 5, 2010
I had no idea that house-sitting was an industry. In August, when I enjoyed a three-week bonus life as a “a New York writer,” I was staying in a studio of a daughter of a friend of a friend. It was an informal arrangement. And I was thrilled to get the chance to do it. […] Read More

Not Feeling Like Writing

November 4, 2010
In the last couple of months, I haven’t been at all in the mood to write. And I’ve taken some time away from it. However this week and last week, I did it anyway, which is more typically my strategy. But I did it quickly, without looking back, without being very impressed, without much giving […] Read More

The Courage to Run

November 3, 2010
Thanks to all who were so helpful in my brother Harry’s campaign for judge. He didn’t win this one. And this is the first race out of his nine political campaigns that he ever lost. It seemed to me, after he won his first at age 27 against a long-established incumbent and two other fearsome […] Read More


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