You’ll have to admit, it takes some cheek to say this: My focus is shifting from accomplishing things to having fun. I noticed this during my recent 18-day extra life in New York. I did accomplish a few things, both for clients and myself. But I didn’t drive myself crazy over it. And it’s entirely […] Read More

Friday was the final day of my 18-day extra life as a New Yorker. As Audrey Hepburn at 28. This two-weeks-and-four-days experience was a tremendous success for me. I loved it. I do feel satisfied now that I’ve had a Manhattan life. Just as I feel satisfied that I had a life in India, in […] Read More

On my penultimate day as a 28 year-old New Yorker (my mini-life on the Upper West Side ends tomorrow), I took a bus to the Bronx. It was the borough I hadn’t yet hit. And I wanted to see it slowly and aboveground instead of popping up out of a subway. The part I saw […] Read More

I revisited some of my New York past yesterday. That’s probably an important piece of an extra bonus life like my 18 days as a Manhattanite. First, I had a very pleasant coffee and re-connect with the literary agent who sold my first novel, Revelation and The Healing Power of Doing Good, and with one […] Read More

Audrey Hepburn came home. For new arrivals here, this is the way I think of the New Yorker whose apartment I’m “sitting” in for my extra mini-life as a Manhattanite. Her glamorous job called her back a few days earlier than she’d planned; she’s now staying with a friend so that I can finish out […] Read More

Audrey Hepburn is coming back to town today. That’s how I think of the young woman who is letting me use her apartment for my 18 day bonus life in Manhattan. l Audrey is a few days early and is graciously staying with a friend so that I can finish my extra life here. Her […] Read More

A cool rainy Sunday in my extra life in Manhattan: a rousingly good church service, a three-hour brunch-with-live-jazz with good friends who’d driven up from Philadelphia, then an excellent late-afternoon play in a small theater with audience discussion with the playwright and composer afterwards. Then, of course, the long walk and the frozen dairy product, […] Read More

This splendid orb was created for the 100th dropping of a Times Square New Year’s Eve ball. The New York Times started the practice in 1907. This piece was made by Waterford Crystal and a lighting company in 2007 to commemorate the century of these celebrations. This ball now sits in the Times Square Visitors […] Read More

Food report from my bonus 18-day life in Manhattan: above you’ll see a lamb kofta burger from a fine establishment called 5 Napkin Burger. It was impressively good. And as juicy as advertised. In fact, 5 napkins were not enough; I needed a bib, really wrecked my shirt. Speaking of wreckage, here’s the update on […] Read More

Well, I screwed up. I’m here in New York apartment-sitting, with the simple duties of watering the plants and bringing in the mail. You’d think I could handle that. But I let one of the plants on the terrace go too long without water. Its prognosis is now iffy. I’ve sent my confession and apology […] Read More