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Getting Focused

January 15, 2010
I keep ducking out of the task before me today to cruise celebrity gossip web sites. Partly because I've worked too much lately and partly because of the disaster in Haiti. Here's the Haiti connection: when something huge is going on, it feels wrong not to be somehow involved in the moment. It reminds me […] Read More

Help Haiti

January 14, 2010
Prayers for Haiti and… here’s a good annotated Guide to Haiti Relief Funds Welcome to doni_ione, carmen_tourney2, ktr2, and jsuddath. Add to del.icio.us - Stumble It! - Subscribe to this feed - Digg it Read More

Bold Image

January 13, 2010
On weekday mornings, I pass this building, Unity Church of the Triangle, on the way to my office at the edge of downtown Raleigh, NC. Every time I see it, I’m affected: by the sharp edges of the white against the sky. It seems to make the sky bluer (and I didn’t fool with the […] Read More

Bold in the Face of Gossip?

January 12, 2010
A very juicy account of our most recent presidential campaign is released today: Game Change by New York magazine writer John Heilemann and Mark Halperin of Time magazine. I’ve only read an excerpt and I won’t burden you here with the scorching details, but the intimate material about one failed candidate’s family life was pretty […] Read More

Wading Through Mud Today

January 11, 2010
I’ve noticed that there’s a rhythm to my productivity and my get-up-and-go. Mud-wading periods are followed by flying-faster-than-light periods when most things are easy. The mud periods inevitably feel to me like a failure of nerve: as if timidity were slowing me down. This may not be true at all; it may be just a […] Read More

Losing Mum and Pup: A Brave Book

January 10, 2010
In the last 24 hours, I’ve read Christopher Buckley’s memoir, Losing Mum and Pup, about the deaths of his parents William and Pat Buckley. William F. Buckley Jr., as you know doubt know, was the conservative who used big words on Firing Line and wrote several dozen books and created National Review. I long admired […] Read More

Eating Dessert Instead

January 9, 2010
“Eat Dessert First” is a classic bit of tongue-in-cheek advice. I’ve arrived at a guilt-free variation on this for special days: skipping boring proteins, etc., and going straight for a dessert that I’ve long eyed. Last night (to review: it was my 61st b’day) for dinner, I ate Oh, My God, Chocolate Peanut Butter Pie […] Read More

Rising to a New Level as a Blogger

January 8, 2010
I’ve been attacked! I’m so excited! In my reading about blogging, I’ve often run across the suggestion that an ambitious blogger post an attack on someone well-known to create some controversy. So I attacked Sarah Palin–with total sincerity–but didn’t see my star rise any higher as a result. Now, out of the blue, I find […] Read More

Small Personal Triumphs

January 7, 2010
This morning I installed the new DVD player that my husband and I gave each other for Christmas. (It only arrived a couple of days ago; I haven’t been procrastinating that long) It was really pretty simple to do; took only about ten minutes from package ripping to hearing the familiar ringing tones of the […] Read More

The Power of Announcing a Specific Goal

January 6, 2010
Welcome to Katrina and good luck on your resolution: 30 pounds off in 80 days. http://trina-80days30lbsisitpossible.blogspot.com/. I think that your announcing your goal as you have is going to help make it happen. I have no doubt about it: you’re going to accomplish this. Keep us up on how it goes. Add to del.icio.us - Stumble It! - Subscribe […] Read More


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