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A Procedural Question

October 19, 2009
I’ve had report that it has recently been hard/confusing/impossible to leave a comment here. If you’ve had such difficulty, would you email me and let me know? [email protected]. Thanks. Add to del.icio.us - Stumble It! - Subscribe to this feed - Digg it Read More

The Courage to Make a Controversial Stand

October 18, 2009
A new hero of mine: Olympia Snowe, Republican senator from Maine. She’s the only senator of her party to vote for the Obama-backed healthcare reform bill this week. And she has ignored right-wing doctrine before: voting against a bill to ban gay marriage. Hail, Ms. Snowe. I hope her courage and her thinking set a […] Read More

Step Outside the Walls

October 17, 2009
Brisk weather is, for me, enlivening. It’s the season of new resolves, freshly sharpened pencils, and perkier energy. Perhaps that’s just in North Carolina, where the mugginess tends to lift by mid-October. In Chapel Hill, the temp just now is 56. The wind is north at 5 mph, and the humidity is 56%. We should […] Read More

Dare to Stand Out

October 16, 2009
University professor meets with student to go over his work. (on Halloween) See previous post: Feeling Like the Only One? Got your Halloween costume yet? Add to del.icio.us - Stumble It! - Subscribe to this feed - Digg it Read More

The Daring and Beauty of “Dear & Yonder”

October 15, 2009
Surfer women are the subject and the stars of a charming and inspiring new movie I went to see last night. "Dear & Yonder: Daring Stories of Ladies United by the Sea" had its Pittsboro, North Carolina premiere at Pittsboro General Store Cafe. This inland village(pop.2525), 20 minutes from my house, is where one of […] Read More

Why We Should Celebrate Failures

October 14, 2009
From Success Magazine this month: “When is the last time you rewarded yourself for failing? Probably never. Instead of mentally punishing yourself for not succeeding, buy yourself an ice cream cone and say, ‘Great job! I’m one step closer to success!” On the surface this sounds silly, but celebrating failure is one of the best […] Read More

Baby Blue Courage

October 13, 2009
A young couple who live down the other fork of my dirt road had a baby a few weeks ago. Their first one died in infancy a couple of years ago and it was very, very hard. I’m so proud of them and their courage for starting again. They have one huge celebratory blue bow […] Read More

Boldness in Crisis

October 12, 2009
I’m watching a friend go through a crisis and handle it in a manner that is thoughtful and purposeful and yet emotionally in touch. This same friend gets into a fury if she misplaces her sunglasses. I’m impressed. And I’m also encouraged by the thought that real trouble may call up resources we didn’t know […] Read More

Several Reasons to Seize the Day

October 11, 2009
Hyper-alive today. Partly the blue sky and October air. Mainly it’s being reminded by the waiting-for-news friend I posted about yesterday and then seeing last night another pal who is increasingly disabled. I’m worried for both of them and yet overwhelmingly glad we’re all three alive. And one more thing, I just left the reunion […] Read More

Looking for Meaning

October 10, 2009
A buddy got some worrisome news. And now has the anxiety of waiting for more info. Maybe the worrisome-news category of events exists to put things like email problems into perspective, for all concerned. However, I can easily conceive of a universe in which there’s never a bad biopsy and no vexing computer problems either. […] Read More


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